Disasters to Development: How Spiritual Growth Begins

After reading a number of books from world famous authors I got to thinking about how in almost every case there was some major life crisis that spurred the author on to the spiritual path. An accident which laid someone up in a hospital bed for months, a divorce that shook their belief in love, a physical disease that could have proved fatal, these are just some examples of such issues. Very few people in this world wake up one fine morning and decide, “My life is good the way it is, but now I’m going to try something different so that I can grow as a person.”

The Disaster is Actually a Good Thing

Ever think any normal person is going to say that to himself and start making drastic lifestyle changes? No, sad to say most of us will happily go on living the lives we are living, even if we are not too thrilled about them. Routine is comforting, routine is safe and routine is no place where you will have a chance to challenge yourself and find your inner strengths. It is only when that spectacular crisis hits your life that you suddenly wake up and realize, “Hey, that’s not good. I need to do something about this situation.”

Beginning Self Development

Inner growth is not a top priority or even a distant goal for the majority of us when things are going great in the material world that we are living in. It is only when things begin to go wrong that we suddenly wake up to the possibility of changing the way we do things. It is no longer an option to remain in the loser pattern and then we decide to shake things up. This is when we begin to catalogue our strengths and weaknesses, which is the first step to making actual changes. How can you improve yourself when you don’t know what you need to work on?

Developing New Habits

It is not easy to change the habits of a lifetime. There will be times that you want to do so much more than what you are physically able to achieve. That’s fine. Each time you feel frustrated about moving at a snail’s pace, take a look at how far you’ve come. The changes that you have already managed to effect will give you the motivational boost required to stay on the path. The best way to stay the path is to make friends who also are in the process of inner growth. The support group is a great place to share your insecurities and know that you will get the right advice.

Use Your Greatest Tool – Your Mind

There is nothing more powerful in your world as your own mind. We believe what we tell ourselves. So it behooves us to speak positively and well when we use our minds. The easiest way to use the power of our mind is through positive affirmations. You may already be working with some on your own, but it always helps to ask for more clarity. Here is a good affirmation from best -selling author Louise Hay that you could use.

Affirm – I ask for more understanding so that I may knowingly and lovingly shape my world and my experiences.