The Joy of Giving : Raising Socially Responsible Children

Christmas is round the corner and it’s the time of the year when people look forward to getting home and spending time with family. There is love and warmth in the home and also great food and lots of presents for all.  While those of you fortunate enough to have a computer and internet connection to read this article may take these things as a given at Christmas time, there are many people who are not so fortunate.

 Some do not have the health to celebrate while others do not have the wealth. Few many be estranged from their loved ones, others may be unable to travel home due to work. Whatever the reason, it is sad that there are people who may not be able to enjoy the holiday of Christmas and welcome the new year with their family and friends. This is where you can teach your children about sharing and the joy of giving.

Children are simple beings who radiate love. By merely being present in an old age home they will bring joy. By taking a few toys as gifts from their own stash to an orphanage, they will learn about caring for those who do not have as much as they do. By helping to feed those destitute people who are homeless, they will realize what a big difference a full stomach can make. There are so many activities that you as the parent can involve your children with during this time that are healing.

Not all parents are happy or willing to expose their children to those less fortunate than themselves. Perhaps it is a misguided sense of protecting them from harm that makes this decision for them. The truth is, there is no harm in spreading cheer and joy during a festive time. The children themselves come away with a more sober attitude when they learn how little it takes to help someone else. They learn social responsibility at an early age.

Yes, you must be careful what you choose to expose your young children to. They should definitely not be visiting anyone with contagious diseases, or violent attitudes. There is a limit to the amount of suffering that the tender heart of a child can accept. As the parent you play gatekeeper to your child’s safety and security. At the same time, do not let your fears overwhelm your children. Allow them to experience the fact that the world is not a perfect place. Allow them to know that you can heal your life with actions.

Sharing what they have with others less fortunate than them will give them an unparalleled joy. It will teach them about being compassionate to other human beings. They will learn to be more empathetic towards people not blessed with the same advantages that they have. Children who have a sympathetic and concerned nature will grow up to be gentle and loving adults. For the future of the planet, this is a species that we must encourage. So in the season of joy teach your children the art of sharing and allow them to understand the divine wisdom available to them.