Building Loving Relationships to Heal Your Life

The relationships you have in your life are a good gauge of the quality of your life. The more loving relationships you have with others the healthier you are. The more negative and energy zapping relations that you have in your life, the unhappier you are. A lot depends on you and your attitude to determine the kind of relationships you attract to yourself. 


Is Everyone Out to Get You?

Some people are always complaining about the quality of people who come into their lives. To hear them speak one would think that the universe conspires to send every cheat, low brow, hoodwinker and trickster to interact with them. Now those of us who study the Law of Attraction know that nothing happens by chance, as everything we experience we attract into our lives.

So the actual problem is that these people are so busy thinking the worst of people who come into their lives or worry so much about meeting the wrong kind of people who will take advantage of them, that they repeatedly manifest such people in their lives. Since such people show up repeated in their lives, they feel justified in having suspicious natures. It is a vicious circle that they can not break through. 

Beating the Vicious Circle with Love

The way to draw loving people into your life is to radiate love to those whom you come in touch with. For any sensible person it is difficult to imagine that a person committing a fraud  may decide not to do so just because you send him or her loving energy waves. It seems too simplistic a solution, but we know that it is possible. When you expect the worst of people you are not disappointed when they let you down.

However when you expect the best of people you somehow make them unwilling to disappoint you. The person concerned feels that he or she can not let you down, and so automatically goes on their best behaviour where you are concerned. Try it! The next time you feel someone is about to rip you off, send them loving thoughts such as I know you will do your best by me or I trust you to do what is correct in this situation. You may have some interesting things to observe.

Overcome Your Barrier by Using Affirmations

At first when you begin to send love waves out to people you do not really care much about, you are bound to feel foolish. A part of your mind will ask you what on earth do you think you are doing? This doubting portion of your mind is your ego. You need to understand that the ego feeds on negative emotions. Pride, anger, guilt, these are all manifestations of your ego. So when you connect to your higher self with love and decide to heal your life, you are essentially kicking the ego out.

Naturally the ego must fight for survival. This is why it causes you to doubt your actions, thoughts and words. The truth is that when you embrace love, you will find that it flows out from you and returns to you from other people. There is no place for the ego in such a set up. So accept its shenanigans and lovingly let them go. The relationships in your life will turn more loving and will in turn make you a happier and healthier person.