Attracting What You Want, When You Need It, Without Self Esteem Blocking You

When we speak of using the Law of Attraction to manifest what our heart desires, and it actually does become a reality, it feels like magic. That you could think of something and make it come into existence for you does seem like it would require great effort and mysterious mantras. At least that is the conditioning we seem to function from thanks to our general upbringing. No one ever said that if you want something ask for it and it will be there. Our parents and teachers always said that we would have to work hard if we wanted a good life. Without paying your dues you could not expect anything to go your way, as per them.

Why Attraction Doesn’t Work for You

Then along comes this brand new concept that tells you that all you want can truly be yours. In fact you will not need to work terribly hard and slave away to get what you desire. All you need to do is think clearly about your desire and then visualize it as real. Work on the guidance given to you by your higher self, which is basically your connection to the eternal energy flowing throughout the universe. In due course you will find that whatever you have desired is coming straight to you. However there is one main barrier to making the Law of Attraction work for you. This is a low self esteem that believes that you do not deserve what you desire.

The Importance of Self Esteem

Your self esteem intrudes in all aspects of your life. It affects the way you look because self esteem dictates how you dress and hold yourself. It pokes its head into your relationships as you either accept what adoration you get as your due, or wonder what the people’s hidden agenda is when they are being good to you. It also has far reaching consequences on your health because if you don’ think you are worth it; you are not going to make the effort to take care of yourself. It affects your financial security as well. All in all self esteem issues are best tackled head on to ensure that you live a better, more fulfilled life.

Improving Low Self Esteem with Mirror Work

One of the easiest ways to boost your self esteem is to do what Louise Hay terms “Mirror Work.” This essentially comprises of looking into your own eyes in a mirror and really seeing yourself. Then you add an affirmation that allows you to raise your self esteem. The one that Louise uses personally in tough situations is “All is well. Everything is working out for my highest good. I am loving and approving of myself. A solution is available. I feel better and better about my ability to deal with this challenge right now.” You can use this as a starting point and come up with any affirmation that works for you.

Boosting your self esteem will help you trust your inner guidance better. It will allow you to gain confidence in your own abilities and talents. You will be more aware of the gifts your soul has to offer and be willing to share them with other people. There will be more love in your life and your relationships will have a grounding of compassion. It’s all possible if you believe you can do it. That is what the Heal Your Life Workshops are all about. Exploring what is lacking in yourself and healing it to help you develop into a more complete spiritual being.